The Mother of all Problems

You've just met someone new and they seem absolutely perfect,.. your dream partner. It's full on, it's exciting and they tell you how great you are together.   Out of the blue, they reveal something bad that happened to them. Now you feel angry, yet more emotionally connected and determined to help them through it. But, stop and think... There's a few things going on here that I've experienced a number of times. You might find it hugely flattering that somebody seems to feel so strongly about you, but stop for a second and consider, is this how normal people act, or does it just feel too good to be true? And why did they rush into telling you their dark secret? Let's take things one point at a time. 1. They seem perfect for you. What are the odds that you actually have found someone who's a perfect match in every way? They might:- like your music tastes. like the TV shows you watch. fit in too well with your friends and family. share you